Tessa Rhodes

I help children overcome their fear of water with a dose of compassion and a whole lot of patience.

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Do You Have a Fearless Child?

December 16, 2017 by Tessa Rhodes Leave a Comment

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do you have a fearless child

Ahhhh!!!! The holidays are approaching so fast. I have a gazillion things to do to prepare for a gazillion visitors. And I have done nothing! I tell you, nothing! Also, my son will be returning from college. I can’t wait! It’s been so long. Enough about me.

Do you have a fearless child?

If you are a reader of my blog, then you know that I have devoted a lot of time to helping children overcome their fear of water. But what about the child who has no fear. The fearless child. Always putting himself in harm’s way and not considering the outcome. This child is at an even higher risk of drowning than the fearful one.

Check out these great tips on parenting the fearless child.

I struck up a conversation with a woman recently about her fearless child.

She told me that her son, five years old wanted to show her “his skills.” And, yes, she did include the air quotes when speaking of “his skills.”

So, here’s what happened. During a visit to a friend’s house, the five-year-old, let’s call him Johnny, ripped off his water wings and stepped into the inground spa (not heated to the typical hot tub temperature).

Now standing on the seat and with the intent to make it to the other side, he leapt into the middle with all the confidence one can muster. In an instant, with limbs akimbo, (I bet you never saw that coming) and with his mother on the sidelines rooting him on, he did make it to the other side.

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Johnny was a tad traumatized and perhaps a little surprised that it didn’t go down exactly as planned.

His mom said that the incident made him more aware of the fact that maybe he doesn’t have the “skills.” It’s a lesson that Johnny will not soon forget. And as a result, he’s much more cautious when he’s around water. Mission accomplished because isn’t that precisely what we all want from our children?

So give your children the opportunity to learn from their mistakes and let them experience the natural consequences (as long as it’s not too dangerous). It makes more of an impact and tends to leave a long-lasting impression.

But WHEN will they learn to make better choices? I’m glad you asked.

Did you know that the prefrontal cortex (decision making, problem-solving and moderating social behavior part of the brain) isn’t fully developed until about age 25 or so? For more on this, be sure to check out my blog post entitled When Will My Child Ever Learn?

In the meantime between now and when they celebrate their 25th birthday, you’ll just need to continue to help them make better choices.

So if you have little ones around the house, especially fearless kiddos, extra vigilance is essential when around bodies of water.

And be sure to continually remind them to stay away from water hazards, wear life jackets, stay close to adults, never swim alone, and the list goes on because they WILL forget.

Also consider fencing in your pool, spa and or landscape water features. Children ages 1-4 years most often drown in home pools, simply because there are no barriers.

If you have any thoughts on the subject or experiences that you would like to share about your fearless kiddo, I would love to hear from you.

Love the water but fence it in, do you have a fearless child
Tessa do you have a fearless child

P.S. Get the FREE water safety app to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water. It includes kid-friendly videos and quizzes. Search the iTunes app store for Swim by American Red Cross or click here. For Google Play you can use the same search parameters or click here. It provides the latest in water safety guidance to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water.

P.P.S. To start your child on the path to becoming water safe, click here. do you have a fearless child

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The fearless child. Always putting himself in harm's way and not considering the outcome. This child is at an even higher risk of drowning than the fearful one. Click through to read the full post and learn why you need to remind your child constantly to stay out of danger and water safety tips to keep them safe. Also, find out how this five-year-old child learned the hard way. Plus great tips for parenting the fearless child.

All about Swim Diapers, in the News and Water Safety Tips

December 4, 2017 by Tessa Rhodes Leave a Comment

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Hello everyone. I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving. I know, it’s been a long time. The summer was crazy busy, so I had no time to write, but I’m back.

I just uploaded a new blog post

It’s all about swim diapers. Everything you wanted to know and more. In case you thought that you wanted to know a whole lot about swim diapers, then you’ve come to the right place. It also includes a swim diaper hack video. You’ll want to check it out. It’s a real time saver.

Other points covered include:

  • Best swim diaper practices
  • Disposable swim diapers vs. reusable swim diapers
  • The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommendations
  • Why don’t swim diapers hold urine and much more

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This just happened http://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-north-hollywood-drowning-20171130-story.html. Don’t let it happen to your little ones. Did you know that any water deep enough to cover the mouth and nose, which can be less than two inches, can cause drowning?

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So make sure you check for all potential water hazards in and around your home such as:

  • Buckets of water so
  • Toilets so
  • Bathtubs so
  • Sinks so
  • Puddles so
  • Kiddie pools so
  • Swimming pools so
  • Spas so
  • Landscape water features

Also to prevent accidents from happening, provide close adult supervision. Furthermore, be sure to empty all buckets of water, close bathroom doors, use safety locks on toilets, never leave a child unattended in a bathtub, drain the tub and sinks and empty kiddie pools.

And finally, include barriers around swimming pools, spas, and water features.

No matter how well your child can swim and no matter how shallow the water is, always, always provide constant and vigilant adult supervision.

If you have any thoughts on the subject or experiences that you would like to share, I would love to hear from you.

Love the water but fence it in,
Tessa

P.S. Get the FREE water safety app to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water. It includes kid-friendly videos and quizzes. Search the iTunes app store for Swim by American Red Cross or click here. For Google Play you can use the same search parameters or click here. It provides the latest in water safety guidance to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water.

P.P.S. To start your child on the path to becoming water safe, click here.

water safety newsletter

All about swim diapers. In case you thought that you wanted to know a whole lot about swim diapers, then you've come to the right place. Click through to read the full post. It includes a swim diaper hack video. You'll want to check this out. It's a great time saver. Other points covered. Best swim diaper practices, disposable swim diapers vs. reusable swim diapers, why don't swim diapers hold urine and the answer to what is the least amount of water it takes to drown? Plus water safety tips.

Do Swim Diapers Hold Urine?

November 27, 2017 by Tessa Rhodes 8 Comments

Do swim diapers hold urine? In short, no. Do swim diapers hold urine?

When parents call me to inquire about swim lessons for their diaper-clad infant/toddler, I always want to make sure that they know that swim diapers don’t hold urine. I do this just in case they were planning on outfitting their child with the swim diaper at home before heading off to the swim lesson. how to teach your baby to swim 0-6 months

This plan could result in a wet car seat if the child urinated during the commute. But don’t worry because I have a swim diaper hack for you (Read on, and I will reveal it).

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May 25, 2020 update: I originally wrote this blog post in 2017, and although all the information in this article is still valid, there is a new amazing product on the market. 

TrustyTrunks!

I learned about it through a message that I received from the inventor, explaining her fantastic new swim diaper solution! Here’s what she wrote:

There is a new swim diaper that you CAN put on at home, because they are truly leakproof, so urine won’t leak onto a car seat. They are called TrustyTrunks. They are made from silicone, so there are no seams and the super stretchy material forms a seal at baby’s waist and legs. Wear them over a regular, absorbent diaper, cloth or disposable.”

                – Nancy Stockton, inventor, and founder of TrustyTrunks

Do swim diapers hold urine?
Thank you, to Christian and his mom for their participation

So if you were wondering just how many parents KNOW that swim diapers DON’T HOLD URINE, the answer is ZERO.

Do swim diapers hold urine? Swim diaper hack.

I was one of those parents once

I didn’t know that swim diapers didn’t hold urine. I also didn’t know what the difference was between a regular diaper and a swim diaper.

Side note: Don’t use a regular disposable diaper in a pool. There’s a good chance that it will burst open. Also, if you squeeze out the excess liquid after you remove it from your child, then a GUARANTEED explosion is the result. I’ve seen it happen.

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A mother of one of my students outfitted her daughter with a regular disposable diaper for her swim lesson one day. I was unaware of this fact until a few minutes into the lesson. After her mother removed the diaper from her daughter, she squeezed out the excess liquid. It immediately burst open and out came a heap of gelatinous material (the stuff that absorbs the urine).

 

Check out my swim diaper hack. It will make your life easier as it eliminates many of the steps involved when dealing with diapers and swimming lessons. It’s a short video you can get by clicking the button below.

All about swim diapers. In case you thought that you wanted to know a whole lot about swim diapers, then you've come to the right place. Click through to read the full post. It includes a swim diaper hack video. You'll want to check this out. It's a great time saver. Other points covered. Best swim diaper practices, disposable swim diapers vs. reusable swim diapers, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommendations, why don't swim diapers hold urine and much more.

So what is the difference between a regular disposable diaper and a disposable swim diaper you might ask?

A regular disposable diaper contains a superabsorbent polymer (SAP). The SAP is made up of white crystals that have the consistency of soft white sand. When the crystals come in contact with liquid, it transforms into coagulated chunks. The SAP is what traps the moisture and keeps it away from the baby’s skin. A disposable swim diaper does not contain the SAP. No SAP means pee runs down baby’s leg.

Why doesn’t a single parent know that swim diapers don’t hold urine?

There’s a simple explanation. If you look at the packaging for disposable swim diapers, all it says is that it’s “designed for water and won’t swell.” That’s it. Nothing else.

It’s no wonder we don’t know that swim diapers don’t hold urine.

Disposable swim diapers vs. reusable swim diapers

Let’s start with the disposable swim diapers:

  • First of all, disposable swim diapers are designed to be worn only once. Hence the word disposable.
  • Not environmentally friendly but convenient.
  • Also, they’re designed to trap the poop, but it’s not 100% effective.
  • And just a reminder. Don’t forget to have multiple swim diapers on hand when you go to the pool just in case.

Now for the reusable swim diapers:

  • First of all, reusable swim diapers are obviously designed to be worn over and over again.
  • So it saves you money and is environmentally friendly.
  • But it’s not very convenient when you have to clean up the poopy mess.
  • It is also designed to trap the poop, but also just like its disposable counterpart, it’s not 100% effective.
  • But it’s more likely to fulfill its purpose if you choose a diaper with a snug fit.
  • And last but not least, make sure you purchase at least two pairs of reusable swim diapers. And bring along both pairs for those trips to the pool.

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I recommend and prefer that my infant/toddler students wear both swim diapers

The more layers of protection, the better. Also, clean up is effortless. If your child has an accident, it will be the disposable swim diaper that gets soiled, not the reusable one. Be sure to tuck the disposable swim diaper into the reusable one around the waist and the legs.

Side note: Swim schools and public pools have their own rules. Make sure you find out ahead of time what their swim diaper policies are.

And just as Christian demonstrates in the video, the reusable swim diaper can also be worn in place of swim trunks for toddlers. But for infants…

I strongly suggest that infants wear even more layers

Consider a baby wetsuit. It’s an excellent option for infants instead of a swimsuit or in addition to it.

  • A well-fitted baby wetsuit will keep baby warm and secure.
  • It will help to trap the poop. (Be sure to remove your baby from the pool the second you notice the trapped poop because no one wants a re-enactment of the scene from Caddyshack.)
  • And the extra buoyancy that comes from the wetsuit helps baby float more efficiently. So your little one will master the back float in a shorter time.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) Recommendations

  • Check swim diapers often (every 30 to 60 minutes).
  • Change diapers away from the poolside. Germs can spread and cause illness.
  • Never swim when ill with diarrhea. Do swim diapers hold urine?

Swim diaper hack do swim diapers hold urine?

When you have to deal with diapers and swimming lessons, it’s a whole thing. Am I right? First, you need to outfit your child with a regular diaper and clothes just for the car ride to the swim lesson.

Once you’ve arrived, you need to do it all over again…

So if you want to get your infant/toddler ready for the pool in the comfort of your own home, my video will show you how. Click on the button below.

All about swim diapers. In case you thought that you wanted to know a whole lot about swim diapers, then you've come to the right place. Click through to read the full post. It includes a swim diaper hack video. You'll want to check this out. It's a great time saver. Other points covered. Best swim diaper practices, disposable swim diapers vs. reusable swim diapers, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommendations, why don't swim diapers hold urine and much more.

I hope you watched the video and that you found it helpful. And if you decide to share it with your friends I would be most appreciative.

I didn’t come up with this brilliant idea by the way. I have to give credit where credit is due. So thank you, Serena (a mother of one of my students) for this innovative time saver.

Let’s recap

  • A regular diaper in the pool, is bad do swim diapers hold urine?
  • A swim diaper is good do swim diapers hold urine?
  • Two swim diapers are better Do swim diapers hold urine?
  • For infants, two swim diapers AND a wetsuit is the best

If you’ve had a similar experience with an exploding diaper during an aquatic adventure, I would love to hear from you. Feel free to add to the comment box below.

Love the water,
Tessa

P.S. Get the FREE water safety app to help ensure your family stays safe in, on, and around the water. It includes kid-friendly videos and quizzes. Search the iTunes app store for Swim by American Red Cross or click here. For Google Play you can use the same search parameters or click here. It provides the latest in water safety guidance to help ensure your family stays safe in, on, and around the water.

P.P.S. To start your child on the path to becoming water safe, click here.

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International Water Safety Day May 15

May 15, 2017 by Tessa Rhodes Leave a Comment

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International water safety day
Fun fact: Elephants can swim up to twenty miles a day. They use their trunk as a snorkel.

The most swimming I do is about 500 yards, which is about 46 lengths in my pool. So an elephant would have to swim 3200 lengths in my pool for his daily exercise routine.

I won’t talk about the elephant in the pool anymore, but I would like to tell you about one of my students in the pool the other day.

He’s going to be three years old in a couple of months and loves to retrieve sinkable objects from the bottom in the shallow end. His favorite sinkable objects are the torpedoes or as he refers to them, “potatoes.” Too cute.

INTERNATIONAL WATER SAFETY DAY MAY 15!
Striving to make a planet that’s 70% water, 100% water safe.

International water safety day is a global team effort to bring as much awareness of the statistics of drowning to the general population. And to educate children and adults on how to be safe in, on and around water.

According to the World Health Organization, 372,000 people lose their lives to drowning each year. So that means that every hour of every day more than 40 lives are lost worldwide.

And these figures do not include data from 66 countries. Nor do they include intentional drowning deaths (suicide or homicide), cataclysms or water transport incidents.

Therefore if all types of drownings and all countries were represented, it is suggested that the WHO estimated drowning rate would multiply by four or five times.

And the most vulnerable are children ages 1 to 4 years, followed by children ages 5 to 14 years.

Drowning can take place in any body of water from as little as 2 inches of water in a bathtub, bucket or toilet to a landscape water feature, pool, pond, river, lake or ocean just to name a few.

91% of global drowning deaths occur in low and middle-income countries. The main reasons are:

  • Lack of physical barriers between water sources and children
  • And lack of adult supervision so
  • Uncovered or unprotected water supplies and lack of safe water crossings
  • Also a lack of water safety awareness
  • And traveling on water, especially on overcrowded or poorly maintained vessels
  • Finally, flood disasters, whether from extreme rainfall, storm surges, tsunamis or cyclones

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So keep you and your family safe around water. Make sure to:

  • Always swim in a lifeguarded area. so
  • And always swim with a buddy, never swim alone.
  • Learn swimming and water safety survival skills.
  • Provide close and constant attention to children you are supervising in or near water.
  • Children, inexperienced swimmers, and boaters should wear U.S. Coast Guard-approved life jackets.
  • Provide adequate barriers around swimming pools, spas, and landscape water features.
  • Also, know what to do in an emergency. If a child is missing, check the water first.
  • And know when to call 911 and have easy access to reaching or throwing equipment, a cell phone, life jackets and a first aid kit.

Enroll in American Red Cross home pool safety to keep you and your family safe around water.

And for more information on preventing accidents to keep you and your family safe, get the free water safety app. For the iTunes app store click here and for Google Play click here.

To participate in International Water Safety Day, simply share this post with as many people as you can on your favorite social media platform(s).

The more people we can reach, the closer we get to make our planet 100% water safe.so

Thank you for your participation.so

Love the water, so
Tessa so

P.S. Get the FREE water safety app to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water. It includes kid-friendly videos and quizzes. Search the iTunes app store for Swim by American Red Cross or click here. For Google Play you can use the same search parameters or click here. It provides the latest in water safety guidance to help ensure your family stays safe in, on and around the water.

P.P.S. To start your child on the path to becoming water safe, click here. so

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International water safety day is a global team effort to bring as much awareness of the statistics of drowning to the general population. And to educate children and adults on how to be safe in, on and around water. Click through to read the full post.

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